Very cool!!

I just got off the phone with Mark. I sent him with my brother in law John to Lambeau for the weekend. They're there for the Packer Draft Party. Believe it or not, Mark didn't really start getting excited about this until about Wednesday. (NOTE: Mark is a bigger Brett Favre fan than he is a Packer fan. I am both.) I started looking at the list of events for the party on Thursday night and I was a bit jealous that I wasn't going. I told him that next year my sister Ali and I were going. Anyway, Mark just called to tell me the really cool thing that happened to him just a couple of minutes ago. He got to meet, up close and personal, Mike McCarthy!!! For those of you who don't know who he is, he's the head coach for the Green Bay Packers. Mike had been speaking at the Draft Party and Mark happened to run into him by a back elevator after he was done speaking (Mike McCarthy, not Mark. It would be VERY scary to have Mark speak at a Packer event. Esepcially one where GM Ted Thompson would be present...as he was today). Mike actually went over to Mark, shook his hand and said hello to him. Too bad Mark didn't have a camera or my brother in law with him to get a picture. Anyway, Mark was excited about it and had to call home. Oh...Mike was headed to the administrative part of Lambeau because it's almost time for the Pack's first round pick.

Other exciting news: Hope's potty training continues to go in the right direction. YEAH!!!! And since Hope and I are having a bonding weekend this weekend, we were going to go to the zoo today. Well, since winter lasts 10 months of the year here and it's snowing today, we opted out of the zoo and decided to go see "Horton Hears a Who" instead. She did such an awesome job at the movie. Was quiet, at popcorn with Mommy, didn't fall asleep. She even went potty on the big girl chair at the theater when the movie was over. So it's been a good day!!!

Time to go start supper and listen to who the Packers are going to draft. I have no idea who they're even looking at.

Lots of growing

Wow!! Hope is growing so much. Not just physically, but emotionally and developmentally. She has truly hit a growth spurt. I took her to day care again today and she shed tears on the way there when she found out she was going to Kaitlyn's house. By the time we got there she had settled down for the most part, but wanted me to hold her. Long story short: AJ said to her, "Hope, wanna go play on the slide?" And although on the verge of tears, she said, "Sure. Bye bye Mommy." So she went off with AJ and Lisa and I exchanged high fives. By the time I could get out of the house Hope came back to me. She said goodbye one more time and then she was off to play. I was so happy!!! Lisa also told me when I picked Hope up this afternoon that she went ALL day without her pico (Hope's word for pacifier. Not sure where she got that one). She didn't even ask for it at nap time!! This is truly an amazing step for her. She doesn't usually have her pico except at naptime or bedtime, but still, she's growing up!! Then there's the whole potty training thing. Today wasn't as good of a day as the past few have had, but she was in a different routine with daycare today, so we'll take babysteps there. Yesterday I took her to see the pre-school where she'll be going this fall and she saw the little toddler sized bathroom and said, "Mommy, I have to go potty." I thought perhaps it was just the novelty of a bathroom her size, but I sat her on the potty anyway. And she went!! I've found that what works best for Hope is letting her run around the house bare bottomed. She always tells us when she has to go. But if she has her diaper or even big girl pants on, then she goes in her pants. So for her to tell me yesterday, with her diaper on, that she had to go potty, that was huge progress. Maybe we're getting closer to not having to buy diapers anymore. This is the only stage of Hope's life so far that I've found myself being a little frustrated with. I think I expected that because she's so smart she'd get this potty training thing down pat in no time flat. But I do understand that this truly is just a stage and soon it'll all click for her and she'll be wearing those big girl panties all the time.

On an entirely different note...please continue to pray for my friend Rachael. It seems as though she's given up the will to fight this cancer that she has. It's really sad and I think it's becoming really real to her husband Isaac that Rachael is indeed going to dye. Thank you for your prayers.

I was going to put pictures on from the retreat this past weekend, but it's almost 10:20 already and Brett Favre is going to be on David Letterman in a few minute. WooHoo!!! I can't wait to see him. I'm sure he's missed me. LOL So...the pictures will be here soon. I promise!

Great weekend

I was fortunate enough to spend this past weekend with three lovely young ladies from my church. I took Kylee, Jennifer and Kennedy to a Youth Encounter weekend in Wisconsin Dells. They were SO great!!! I knew that they were "good kids" before I left, but now I REALLY know what great "kids" they are. Their parents have done an awesome job raising them to be respectful...something that, frankly, a lot of parents aren't very good at these days. I had a great time getting to know them better and just hanging out with them in general. The funny thing is (and I could be way off-base on this) that I think they actually had a fun time with me, too. The weekend included some great music, a great speaker, great workshops, lots of noise, a fun church group from Tomah, Melody putting a pastor in his place (more on that later), and great music. The band Captive Free was the house band. The guest musician for the weekend was this awesome singer/guitar player/song writer named Lloyd Garrelts. Funny thing is that Lloyd and I are good friends from college. I knew he was going to be at this particular Quake, so that's why I chose to attend this one. Lloyd and I sang in a contemporary Christian band called Living Water for two years while we were in college. Those two years were so much fun!! Now the REALLY cool thing is that Lloyd ended up marrying one of my floormates (Tonya). Tonya and Lloyd's twin sister Lynn were roommates all four years at Concordia. Lloyd and Tonya never dated in college. They really didn't start dating until they had been out of college for quite some time. It's a great story and it just seems so normal that they ended up together. So....Tonya was with Lloyd this weekend and I got to do lots of catching up with her, too. The sad thing is that I've lived in the Twin Cities area for 6 years now and Lloyd and Tonya have lived in Minneapolis for longer than that. I'm so sad that we haven't gotten together before now, but we're going to change that and get together now. I hope it's often because I really love both of them and would like to spend time with them. I have pictures of the weekend, but I haven't gotten them on the computer yet, so I'll post them when I can.

Time for bed, but before I turn off the computer I'm asking for prayers for my cousin Jay. Jay is just 6 months older than me. We were really, really close when we were growing up. He and his family lived just a few blocks from us so we always did stuff together. I just found out yesterday that Jay found out last week that he has skin cancer. He doesn't know much more about it, but he'll be heading down to Madison this week for more tests and stuff like that. Please keep him in your prayers. I'll keep you posted.

Celebration of hope

No, not our daughter. Although we do celebrate her on a daily basis. Tonight I attended a really cool benefit for my friend Kim. It was called "A celebration of hope." It was held at the Hudson Town Hall and there were hundreds of people there. What a testimony to the incredible person that is Kim Warneke. Kim called me on Sunday night and asked if I would be willing to do the prayers at the benefit. I was honored that she thought of asking me. The benefit included some silent auction items, raffle items, and some things for sale (pink ribbons, cute little flip-flops that neighborhood kids made, T-shirts that I believe were made by Kim's niece, etc). The hi-light of the night was the balloon launch. Everyone had a balloon (some more than one) and at the same time we all let our pink balloons go. Money was raised to help Kim and John during this time. The ultimate part of the night, though, was to see all the people who came to show love, support and encouragement to this incredible family. I had a chance to chat with Kim briefly tonight (she wanted John to take our picture) and she is truly an inspiration. As she looked at all the people that were there tonight she said, "Melody. I am so lucky. So blessed." WOW!! I don't think that if I were facing what Kim is facing that I'd feel like I was lucky or blessed. Like I said: what an inspiration.

I believe Kim was supposed to have her first of many treatments today. I'm sure she'll be posting about it, so if you've been following her journey via her Caring Bridge website, stay tuned for an update soon.

Oh...I also got to talk to Kim and John's daughter, Kaitlin, tonight. What a sweetheart!! I asked her if she'd like to go with me some time and get a manicure or a pedicure. She loved the idea. It'll be fun to do something girly with her:)

Time for dreamland. I leave tomorrow for a weekend retreat in Wisconsin Dells with three of my middle school girls. It should be fun, but I'm already tired thinking about the lack of sleep upon me. I remember when I was a new youth director and I thrived on retreats, lock ins and stuff like that. I think I'm getting old. :)

Caring Bridge links

Some of you have asked for Rachael's Caring Bridge website, so here's the link. http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/rachaelgrover. It's such a sad story, but their faith and determination is truly an inspiration. I was thinking that Rachael had lost a baby when she was 16 weeks pregnant or so and I was mistaken . The baby died at birth. This is a couple who has been through so much. Thanks for your prayers and for caring about them.

My friend Kim also has a Caring Bridge site. http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/kimberlywarneke You can follow her journey by checking out the site.

On a more pleasant note: Hope survived her day at Lisa's pretty well. As much as she cried when I left (which I found out was only for a couple of minutes) she cried when I came to pick her up because she didn't want to go home!!! Lisa said she cried a little when it was nap time, but it passed quickly and she had a good nap. So it looks like Lisa will have Hope on Thursdays which will be great for everyone involved.

The 6" of snow we were supposed to get didn't come. PRAISE GOD!!! It was only rain . They say that we're supposed to get some snow this afternoon, but in our part of the Cities it won't accumulate to more than and inch or two...which will melt quickly because it's supposed to get into the 60s and 70s by early next week. YEAH!!! Yesterday afternoon I came home from doing errands and I told Mark that not only is this our last winter in the house we currently live in, but it's our last winter in Wisconsin. This is RIDICULOUS! I told him that we're moving to Texas. I think we're actually giving it some thought. Ultimately I know in my heart though that we'll be stuck in winter for another 6 months come the fall. I'm depressed thinking about that already.

Time to go make some birthday cards. We have lots of special people with birthdays in the next week. Mark's Grandpa turns 98 (YES!!! 98) on Monday and my sister turns 50 on Monday as well. Tuesday is my brother-in-law John's birthday and the 19th is my nephew Shane's 27th birthday.

Happy Friday, everyone!

Heart ache

I dropped Hope off this morning for her first morning at day care. HEART BREAKING!!! She's stayed at Lisa's house a couple of times when I've needed someone to fill in for Mark's Mom, but this will be our regular routine for a while at least. Once a week isn't bad, is it??? Well, she was crying, crying, crying when I left. I walked out the door and I cried. And then I immediately called Mark and told him that HE gets to take her next week. That's only fair, right?? On the way to Lisa's house she insisted that she didn't like Lisa or Kaitlyn (Lisa's 5 year old daughter), which I know is not the truth. She LOVES seeing Kaitlyn at church. Then she said to me, "Mommy...why do you always take me to Lisa's house and leave me?" Knife through the heart!! Certainly being a Mom wasn't this hard on MY Mom, was it?? What Hope doesn't realize is that if there was any possible way that I could be with her 24/7, I would! I'd do it in a heartbeat. But being with other kids her age is good for her and, as much as I don't want to admit it, having time by myself is good for me, too. The other thing Hope doesn't realize is that when she hits about the age of 12, she won't want to have anything to do with me. I should get all of the "I want Mommy" tears on video now so I can show her them in about a decade. LOL

HUGE prayer request for all of you that read this blog. In previous blogs I've mentioned my friends Rachael and Kim who are both battling cancer. I just read Rachael's latest Caring Bridge update and it is NOT good at all. As a matter of fact, I've cried once about it already this morning and I'm about to cry again. The doctors have given her 3-6 months to live. She may not even live long enough to celebrate her little girl's first birthday with her. That breaks my heart. So I think the realization that they have fought as hard as they can has finally started to hit Isaac and Rachael. Please keep them in your prayers. And know that there's a benefit for them at the River Falls Golf course on Saturday. I would urge anyone who can go to attend. The West Wind Supper Club is providing the meal (it's a pasta buffet) and there will be a band and a silent auction. For more info check out the River Falls Journal article at www.riverfallsjournal.com

Time to go for now. Thanks for your prayers and for caring enough about the happenings in our home to keep coming back to read the blog.

An update

So here we are on night #4 of Hope sleeping in her own room. It's going really well. She actually likes sleeping in her bed...as long as either Mark or I are next to her bed. I wonder how long this part of the transition will last?? Baby steps. I have to admit that I miss her at night. I actually get lonely that she's not next to me. And yet I'm enjoying all the space in my bed. So we're getting there.

Tonight I taught 6th-8th grade confirmation like I do every Wednesday night. Tonight we talked about S-E-X (yep...it's OK to talk about that at church). Almost every Wednesday night we play this game where a question will appear on the big screen (I use power point to teach) and then four answers will appear. The kids have to guess which is the correct answer. Very game show-ish. It's fun and they're learning. It's good all around. Well, one of the questions tonight was this: "God intended sex to be:" and before I could even get any of the answers up on the screen, one of my 6th grade boys yelled out "illegal." I just busted a gut!! So funny!!!

It's late. I'm finally coming down from a great high-energy night with the kids, so it's time to finish watching Top Chef and get to bed.

Oh...another first for us starts tomorrow. Mark and I have both decided that it's time for Hope to start interacting more with kids her own age (Mark's parents watch Hope while I'm at work, so other than story time at the library once a week, she gets very little social time with other kids). Beginning tomorrow, she'll be going each Thursday to daycare at my friend Lisa's house. Lisa does daycare in her home, so this will be great. Wait until Hope gets to her next step to being a big girl: getting rid of that dang pacifier (or pico, as she calls it). That'll happen sometime between now and July 19th (her 3rd birthday).